{"id":18132,"date":"2020-04-30T10:38:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T08:38:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dirkvanbabylon.com\/?p=18132"},"modified":"2026-09-11T10:11:37","modified_gmt":"2026-09-11T08:11:37","slug":"addiction-controle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dirkvanbabylon.com\/fr\/addiction-et-dependance\/sortir-de-la-dependance\/addiction-controle\/","title":{"rendered":"Addiction : contr\u00f4le"},"content":{"rendered":"

Je pense que chaque individu aime exercer un contr\u00f4le sur son environnement et sur lui-m\u00eame, et, chaque fois que cela est possible, accro\u00eetre encore ce contr\u00f4le. C\u2019est inscrit en chacun de nous. Pouvoir aller et venir librement o\u00f9 bon nous semble et vaquer \u00e0 nos occupations quotidiennes est \u00e0 ce point essentiel que nous finissons par le consid\u00e9rer comme allant de soi. Nous aimons exercer un certain pouvoir sur notre environnement et, dans notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 moderne, nous le faisons volontiers avec de l\u2019argent, lorsque nous en avons.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ce que nous voulons tous inconsciemment \u2014 et inutile de faire semblant du contraire \u2014, c\u2019est davantage de pouvoir, davantage d\u2019argent et, en fin de compte, davantage de contr\u00f4le. Nous allons illustrer ce m\u00e9canisme plus en d\u00e9tail, car ce n\u2019est qu\u2019en comprenant ce qui se passe que nous pouvons agir sur la situation. L\u2019usage de drogues est souvent motiv\u00e9 par le sentiment d\u2019avoir davantage de contr\u00f4le, m\u00eame si cela peut mal tourner et conduire parfois exactement au contraire.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u2019essentiel est qu\u2019il s\u2019agit toujours de rechercher un effet imm\u00e9diat. Plus le produit agit rapidement, plus le risque de d\u00e9pendance est grand. On se trouve ainsi conditionn\u00e9, parce que le corps anticipe l\u2019effet attendu au point que celui-ci peut parfois \u00eatre d\u00e9clench\u00e9 par un placebo. Il s\u2019agit d\u2019un produit d\u00e9pourvu de toute action pharmacologique, administr\u00e9 \u00e0 la place de la drogue comme s\u2019il s\u2019agissait de celle-ci, et l\u2019on constate alors qu\u2019un certain nombre d\u2019usagers se laissent prendre au pi\u00e8ge.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ce qui est pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment recherch\u00e9 peut varier d\u2019un cas \u00e0 l\u2019autre. Parfois, il s\u2019agit simplement de la sensation de respirer plus librement, de pouvoir ou d\u2019oser davantage, de voir plus clair ou de mieux comprendre, et surtout du sentiment d\u2019avoir davantage de contr\u00f4le : c\u2019est l\u00e0 que se situe l\u2019enjeu. Le contr\u00f4le est ce que la plupart des gens recherchent.<\/span><\/p>\n

Contr\u00f4ler son environnement en exer\u00e7ant un pouvoir sur lui ouvre la voie \u00e0 davantage de plaisir et \u00e0 moins de d\u00e9plaisir. Ou du moins \u00e0 l\u2019impression que nous en sommes capables. De mani\u00e8re tr\u00e8s g\u00e9n\u00e9rale, il s\u2019agit d\u2019\u00e9carter les influences ind\u00e9sirables et de rechercher celles qui sont souhait\u00e9es. Nous le voulons tous. Les animaux aussi, et c\u2019est la chose la plus naturelle au monde. Plus d\u2019espace, plus de possibilit\u00e9s. Nous sommes volontiers \u00e0 la recherche de davantage.<\/span><\/p>\n

On le voit d\u00e9j\u00e0 chez le b\u00e9b\u00e9 lorsqu\u2019il commence \u00e0 se d\u00e9placer \u00e0 quatre pattes. Il veut franchir des obstacles ou v\u00e9rifier si certaines choses peuvent s\u2019embo\u00eeter les unes dans les autres. D\u00e8s l\u2019enfance, nous cherchons \u00e0 contr\u00f4ler notre environnement. C\u2019est ce que nous avons tous fait. Nous grandissons, nous allons \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole et nous devons nous adapter \u00e0 une soci\u00e9t\u00e9 qui n\u2019est pas toujours \u00e9galement bienveillante envers tout le monde. Cette volont\u00e9 de contr\u00f4ler l\u2019environnement est alors mise \u00e0 rude \u00e9preuve.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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