{"id":18079,"date":"2020-06-01T10:05:51","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T08:05:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dirkvanbabylon.com\/?p=18079"},"modified":"2026-09-11T10:08:02","modified_gmt":"2026-09-11T08:08:02","slug":"addiction-oubli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dirkvanbabylon.com\/fr\/addiction-et-dependance\/sortir-de-la-dependance\/addiction-oubli\/","title":{"rendered":"Addiction : oubli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le produit peut \u00e9galement \u00eatre utilis\u00e9 pour tenter d\u2019oublier un souvenir douloureux, mais c\u2019est une entreprise vou\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9chec. Nous ne pouvons pas oublier, du moins pas \u00e0 volont\u00e9, car chaque fois que nous essayons d\u2019oublier quelque chose, nous y pensons. La recherche de l\u2019oubli au moyen de substances chimiques est vou\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9chec, et pourtant on voit des gens qui s\u2019y essaient jusqu\u2019\u00e0 \u00eatre \u00e0 bout de forces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On pense ici au syndrome de stress post-traumatique, typique notamment des anciens soldats qui ont v\u00e9cu des situations de guerre et sont souvent ensuite laiss\u00e9s \u00e0 leur sort. Le d\u00e9sir d\u2019oubli peut bel et bien \u00eatre le moteur d\u2019une addiction, lorsqu\u2019on tente chaque fois d\u2019\u00e9chapper \u00e0 un pass\u00e9 douloureux. Il peut alors r\u00e9ellement \u00eatre utile d\u2019essayer de mettre cela en mots au cours d\u2019un entretien th\u00e9rapeutique.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La strat\u00e9gie est ici proche de celle employ\u00e9e dans la douleur chronique, que l\u2019on peut certes r\u00e9primer, mais pas vaincre. Ceux qui recherchent l\u2019oubli sont, par exemple, des personnes qui ont subi une grande perte dont elles ne sont pas parvenues \u00e0 se remettre, ou des victimes de violences. Parmi les consommateurs de substances, j\u2019entends remarquablement souvent des r\u00e9cits d\u2019abus et de violences, parfois d\u00e8s le plus jeune \u00e2ge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il y a malheureusement beaucoup de violences au sein des familles dans notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9, qui restent souvent dissimul\u00e9es. Ici, l\u2019aspect du secret joue un r\u00f4le particuli\u00e8rement important. Les abus surviennent souvent dans une atmosph\u00e8re de secret o\u00f9 chacun garde les l\u00e8vres soigneusement closes. \u00ab Tu ne dois le r\u00e9v\u00e9ler \u00e0 personne ! \u00bb Il n\u2019est pas aussi facile qu\u2019il y para\u00eet de s\u2019en lib\u00e9rer. On constate souvent que le demandeur d\u2019aide porte avec lui un secret qui n\u2019est mis au jour qu\u2019apr\u00e8s un long moment, souvent avec un soulagement \u00e0 la cl\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On ne peut toutefois pas forcer les choses, car si l\u2019on agit trop brutalement, on finira t\u00f4t ou tard par perdre la confiance, et alors tout s\u2019arr\u00eate et la th\u00e9rapie se trouve bloqu\u00e9e. Il s\u2019agit de construire progressivement la relation th\u00e9rapeutique afin de gagner la confiance. \u00ab La confiance vient \u00e0 pied et repart \u00e0 cheval \u00bb, dit un vieux proverbe. L\u2019\u00e9coute est ici, une fois encore, au centre. Ce sont des personnes pour lesquelles la psychoth\u00e9rapie peut faire des merveilles, contrairement \u00e0 la cat\u00e9gorie du dopage, o\u00f9 nous essuyons souvent un \u00e9chec, comme nous l\u2019avons expliqu\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le produit peut \u00e9galement \u00eatre utilis\u00e9 pour tenter d\u2019oublier un souvenir douloureux, mais c\u2019est une entreprise vou\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9chec. 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